‘Don’t settle for men simply because they chose you’ – Damilola Adegbite tells single ladies

Nollywood actress, Damilola Adegbite has urged single ladies to not settle for relationship or marriage proposals from men simply because they chose them, however as an alternative, settle solely for men who’re proper for them.

Speaking in a current episode of her podcast posted on her YouTube channel, Adegbite famous that some ladies typically settle for men who’re able to settle down simply because the men chose them, with out contemplating whether or not they are proper for them.

“Ladies, don’t select somebody because they chose you. Choose somebody because they are proper for you; whether or not he’s youthful, older or precisely your age, the query is all the time: Can we love, help, and construct with one another?

“Because at the end of the day, we are not looking for numbers. We are looking for a partner. And if that partner happens to be younger, that is also fine,” she stated.

Adegbite suggested older girls to not settle for proposals from youthful men simply because they are youthful.

She urged them to evaluate whether or not the possible youthful companion is respectful and emotionally mature earlier than accepting him.

“To the older lady, if a youthful man is serious about you, please don’t make the error of selecting him because he makes you are feeling fascinating. Choose him because he respects, helps, and makes you are feeling protected.

“Only choose him if he is emotionally mature and knows what he wants, respects your children and your life, and actually wants to build something with you,” she added.